Andrea and Mariano’s friendship
The Lying Life of AdultsAndrea and Mariano’s friendship is a long-standing intellectual and social bond that reaches from their university days into the daily life of the Trada household. Seen chiefly through Giovanna’s childhood perspective, it shapes the adults’ conversations and meetings while exposing the distance between the seriousness they attach to their work and what a child can make of it.
Origins and Shared Work
Andrea and Mariano had known each other since their university days and remained friends. Mariano, a university history teacher and regular contributor to a prestigious Neapolitan journal, was often at the Trada home, where he and Andrea talked for hours. Their association appears to rest on sustained intellectual engagement: the two men argued frequently, and the girls understood that they were undertaking work that demanded study and concentration.
Their common activity extended beyond conversation. Andrea studied for much of the day, while Mariano was described as studying and also loudly denouncing people in Naples, Rome, and elsewhere whom he believed obstructed their work. Giovanna, Angela, and Ida did not understand the substance of the men’s disputes, but they grew up aware that the adults treated them as important.
The Friendship in the Household
Mariano’s frequent presence made the friendship part of the girls’ domestic surroundings. Giovanna remembered him as bald, somewhat heavy, and pale, with blue eyes; his talk with Andrea could continue for hours. She was particularly alert to the bitter discontent he brought into his remarks and to the dialect insults he directed at public figures. Because the girls were forbidden to swear or speak Neapolitan, they repeated the words among themselves for amusement. For Giovanna, however, the language also carried an impression of spite, leaving her unsure whether Mariano’s jokes were merely comic or could wound.
The friendship was not confined to private visits. Andrea held evening meetings at the Trada home and elsewhere, and Mariano was among the people associated with that circle. Andrea’s work and meetings formed a familiar pattern of household life; Mariano’s presence connected that pattern to arguments about politics, value, Marxism, crisis, and the state. Those subjects reached Giovanna mostly as recurring adult vocabulary rather than ideas she could yet assess.
Tensions and Limits of the Record
The narrative does not present the friendship as effortless agreement. Andrea and Mariano argued constantly, and Mariano’s complaints about opponents gave the discussions a combative edge. Yet the evidence also shows continuity: they had remained friends over many years, Mariano continued to visit, and their shared meetings persisted. The arguments therefore appear as part of their intellectual association, not proof that the friendship had ended.
The friendship also sits within a household whose atmosphere changes. Andrea’s meetings, once treated ironically by Giovanna’s mother, became a subject of her mother’s growing interest, to Andrea’s explicit annoyance. The available account does not establish that this shift altered the bond between Andrea and Mariano; it does show that their shared circle was embedded in family life, where participation and disagreement could have consequences beyond the two men.
Narrative Significance
Because the relationship is filtered through Giovanna’s recollections, its importance lies both in what is known and in what remains inaccessible to her. She can observe Mariano’s visits, the men’s long discussions, their quarrels, and their shared meetings, but cannot explain the work or political conflicts that occupy them. The friendship thus gives form to an adult world that is conspicuously present in her childhood yet only partly intelligible: serious to the men, audible and influential to the household, and refracted for the girls through forbidden dialect, jokes, and impressions of hostility.